Listen up, lady...

Things I would tell 19 year old Veronica: 

*The relationship you are in? The one that makes you feel old? Exhausts you? It won't last forever and you will feel nothing but relief. 

*The next relationship will totally change your life. You will not recognize yourself. 

*It's ok to ask for help. 

*The girl you are traveling with, the one getting you a drink as this photo is being taken taken, will prove to be (consistently) the only one to never turn you away. 

*Cherish that clear skin. Adult acne is a bitch (like everything, its mostly in your head. Work on that.) 

*Don't rush. Slow down. Smell things (coffee, roses, etc.) 

*Stop lying to yourself. Instead, start listening. You are right...sometimes. 

*Stop smoking. Seriously. 

*Gainesville will become home. Believe me. But it won't be too hard to leave and that is okay. 

*You will cry hysterically and spray champagne as a biracial man takes the office of President.  You will feel different. Something at the very core of you will change. That is called hope. 

*Stop wearing jean skirts. Gross. 

*You will be back to Europe with a motley crew of folks that will fascinate you, infuriate you, challenge you. They made Gainesville home. 

*You will (totally and completely) become a cat person.

*You will meet and be transformed by a terribly fancy boy. Follow your instincts. You will find  fulfilling, honest love. It will shock you. Accept it. 

*Don't worry about the future. You will be jobless, that nomadic spirit will not die (stop fighting it) and that curiosity that consistently gets you in trouble will define you. Embrace it. 

*Smile more. 

*If you feel like twirling, fucking twirl. 

Yes.

This. This right here. This moment. This is how its always supposed to be. Despite the distance and minor bumps, it's always been this. It easy to forget that I already know exactly how friendships should look. 

How about here?

Come stand next to me...

Havin' a classy...

I am learning to be comfortable with the idea that life can be uncomplicated (or less complicated,) exciting, full of bubbles, sunshine, vintage aprons and defined by the desire to twirl in the streets. Unadulterated glee and constant joy via the fanciest boy to ever say "I love you." Maybe I am amazed...

Sigh.

I imagine right now you're like a Cure song wrapped in vintage window dressing material, eating blueberry pancakes on pink plates in a wildflower field bathed in sunshine.

 

A Coney Island of the Mind

I stumbled upon this book of poetry by Lawrence Ferlinghetti when I was about 14. It has followed me since.

No. 21
She loved to look at flowers
smell fruit
And the leaves had the look of loving

But halfass drunken sailors
staggered thru her sleep
scattering semen
over the virgin landscape

At a certain age
her heart put about
searching for lost shores

And heard the green birds singing
from the other side of silence

Yes.

“It was not the passion that was new to her, it was the yearning adoration. She knew she had always feared it, for it left her helpless; she feared it still, lest if she adored him too much, then she would lose herself, become effaced, and she did not want to be effaced, a slave, like a savage woman. She must not become a slave. She feared her adoration, yet she would not at once fight against it.” — D.H. Lawrence, Lady Chatterley’s Lover

longing for...

Sigh.

i still kiss the sky when certain songs come on...just for someone else.

Seriously.

Halloween in April...

...gave failed drama nerds a reason to play.

Also, can't get my own song out of my head.

I love you, "Paps" Blue Ribbon. 

Just because...

It's true. 

For Mr. James Bernal...

After reading your lovely comment, I immediately went outside and took a photo of the trees on 3rd ave, to remind you of this place. When you return, I promise you a glass of wine, a cigarette and stories underneath the shade of our trees. 

Sleepy eyes, seaside (mis)adventures, trashy/sassy hotel parties.

Because the comment space isn't enough...

Public forums for private things make me uncomfortable. 

I don't sing in front of everyone and I rarely answer my phone. 

Beyond the exes and rare exceptions, yours is the only hand I hold. 

I am sincere when we sit on my bed and listen to the words I wish I'd written. 

I love them as my own family because they are a part of you. 

Epic things: our first neighborhood (1) moment, the birth of Cagney, $1.50 bottles of wine.

I struggle with expectations and proving myself. I try. Is that enough? 

You know, better than most, what a struggle it is for me to be myself...but I most closely resemble that girl around you. 

I am sorry. 

Vain?

Waldo Sunday.

Goffee and flea-market. David Lynch would be proud. 

Sunday.

I want a Sunday kind of love
A love to last past Saturday night 
And I'd like to know it's more than love at first sight
I want a Sunday kind of love oh yeah

I want a love that's on the square
Can't seem to find somebody someone to care
And I'm on a lonely road that leads to nowhere 
I need a Sunday kind of love

I do all my Sunday dreaming
And all my Sunday scheming
Every minute, every hour, every day
And I'm hopin' to discover
A certain kind of lover
Who will show me the way
And my arms need someone to enfold 
To help keep me warm 
When Mondays, and Tuesdays grow cold
And I need a love for all my life
To have and to hold
I need a Sunday kind of love

I do all my Sunday dreaming
And all my Sunday scheming
Every minute, every hour, every day
And I'm hopin' to discover
A certain kind of lover
Who will show me the way
And my arms need someone to enfold 
To help keep me warm 
When Mondays, and Tuesdays grow cold
And I need a love for all my life
To have and to hold
I need a Sunday kind of love

I don't want a Monday or a Tuesday
A Wednesday or a Thursday
Friday or Saturday
I don't want nothin' baby
I want a Sunday kind of love

Longs for a neighborhood cafe to stroll to.

Hand-in-hand. 

Red wine, lots of it. Isn't that how it always goes? 

Sitting in a corner table, putting my feet up like I always do. I hope it doesn't make anyone uncomfortable. 

Warm food, hot topics. 

Unembarrassed silence. 

Let's sit for hours and plan, even if those plans never see the sun. 

I would like to close the place down and wander the streets. 

There are other things I would like to say but another time, perhaps...